WHAT DOES HOW TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER MAN MEAN?

I’ve never been married and don’t have kids. She does and it has 4 kids, she knows that I never wanted/want kids. As well as distance between us is 100km, 1 hour drive. But it surely didn’t hold me back to know her. Because whta is wrong with that?Our ancestors who successfully attracted a partner and secured sexual access were the ones to go